I have to admit, I don't know an awful lot of internet/texting shorthand. My limited knowledge of this is along the lines of LOL (laughing out loud, laughing on line) and TTYL (talk to you later). I would rather have the one on one conversations, as they are more personal and thoughtful.
However, there are so many on line communities and chat rooms designed to assist people as they go through anything. Whether it is parenting, bereavement, addiction or mental illness, just to name a few, there are websites for whatever you may need. Some of these websites are run by legitimate organizations, while others are ones that nobody has heard of.
Case in point, I was in a chat room for an organization that is so well known, it is practically a household name. I needed some support after going through a significant life event I was having difficulty overcoming. I believe it was strong of me to get some relief while still being able to remain anonymous. It was comforting. One of the games that was played in this chat room was taking a word from each letter of the alphabet and naming something we were grateful for. A could be art, B could be beauty, and so on.
Upon entering this chat room, I noticed (((a person's screen name))) and I had to ask what that was. I had never seen it before. It turns out it means an on line hug or embrace. Well, me and my sentimental self were all for that! That's what we were all there for. We needed something to get us through times that were difficult. The on line support and hugs were just what all of us needed.
As I post (((Hugs))) on my status, my hope is that if you are having a tough day that it makes it a little brighter for you. I read the status of a friend of mine recently that said something to the effect of hugs are like boomerangs, you always get them back right away. Very true! I can't think of anything that makes a person feel better in times of need than a hug. Sometimes it is the only thing that helps, the ultimate show of support.
(((My friends))) and love to all!
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Thursday, January 27, 2011
You Are As Loved As You Believe You Are
Status: You are as loved as you believe you are! Self doubt is our own worst enemy. Do away with the doubt and trust that you are valued. Love to all!
To me, this status says a lot. Believe in yourself and who you are and what you stand for.
I think we all have this issue at some point in our lives. I know at times I have to fight it when I feel like nobody hears me. Or if I try to do something nice for people and it's met with a sarcastic remark. It kills me. It takes the pleasure out of it for me and I ask, 'Is it really worth it?'
Let me tell you what I found. I ignore them and keep doing what makes me feel good. Maybe I am a glutton for punishment! Seriously, I found that if I quit, then it's only them winning. I want to win. I want to be that bigger and better person. Devil be damned.
I have felt things at home, at school, work, social that want to make me give in at times. However, I feel the more times you hear positive, the easier it is to believe. So I keep repeating, 'It's all worth it and I am doing what I want for the people I love'. I just had a comment on a previous post of mine that said the world needs more people like me. Well, that was really sweet and probably one of the nicest compliments I have ever received. However, as inspirational and motivational as I want these posts to be, I get down, I get negative and sometimes I allow myself to wallow in self pity.
I think the most important thing to realize here is that I can't change the way other people feel. I can only change the way I perceive things. I can either take everything in a negative way and keep it that way or I can take criticism and make it into a positive thing. When I change things into a positive, I feel better, so I figure--- Why not? It takes more energy and you feel exhausted when it's negative. The positive makes you feel lighter and better.
So the next time you feel that you are getting a negative response, ask yourself if you are doing something you love and that makes you feel good. You are a great person so let yourself believe it. Keep doing it. Self doubt be gone!
To me, this status says a lot. Believe in yourself and who you are and what you stand for.
I think we all have this issue at some point in our lives. I know at times I have to fight it when I feel like nobody hears me. Or if I try to do something nice for people and it's met with a sarcastic remark. It kills me. It takes the pleasure out of it for me and I ask, 'Is it really worth it?'
Let me tell you what I found. I ignore them and keep doing what makes me feel good. Maybe I am a glutton for punishment! Seriously, I found that if I quit, then it's only them winning. I want to win. I want to be that bigger and better person. Devil be damned.
I have felt things at home, at school, work, social that want to make me give in at times. However, I feel the more times you hear positive, the easier it is to believe. So I keep repeating, 'It's all worth it and I am doing what I want for the people I love'. I just had a comment on a previous post of mine that said the world needs more people like me. Well, that was really sweet and probably one of the nicest compliments I have ever received. However, as inspirational and motivational as I want these posts to be, I get down, I get negative and sometimes I allow myself to wallow in self pity.
I think the most important thing to realize here is that I can't change the way other people feel. I can only change the way I perceive things. I can either take everything in a negative way and keep it that way or I can take criticism and make it into a positive thing. When I change things into a positive, I feel better, so I figure--- Why not? It takes more energy and you feel exhausted when it's negative. The positive makes you feel lighter and better.
So the next time you feel that you are getting a negative response, ask yourself if you are doing something you love and that makes you feel good. You are a great person so let yourself believe it. Keep doing it. Self doubt be gone!
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Perfect Purpose
Status: None of us were made perfect, but we were all made for a purpose. Love to all!
Who is perfect? Only one that I can think of! None of us humans, though! We all have faults and weaknesses that we have to live with. However, we were also born with enough strengths to offset those weaknesses. We just have to focus on those strengths. As well, we have to continually work on our weaknesses to improve on them. Guess what? It makes us stronger!
More importantly, we need to focus on the strength of other people rather than putting them down for something they aren't good at. For example, how would I feel if someone was so focused on a weakness of mine they couldn't see the good ones? It has happened and I felt pretty bad. Anybody would and everybody does.
Think about this: What about people who are homeless, or have some sort of difficulty with addiction? What is one of the first things most people think when it comes to these two groups of people? They're no good, they use people, they are lazy, we want them to stay away from us. Guess what? People who are homeless are not without hearts, love and humility. People who suffer from addictions are not without the same. They have either lost their homes, jobs, self esteem, not their abilities to be good people. Ted Williams, the homeless addict in the news recently also has a phenomenal ability to use his voice. It's nice to see him getting a chance to showcase the good things! He very well may fail, but I hope the strength he has allows him to get back up and try again.
One more thing to think about: As someone who has been raised Catholic, I believe we are all God's children. Have you ever seen a baby or toddler or young child not smile, hug and kiss, sigh contentedly in their parent's arms or holding hands with friends? I can't think of one.
Every single one of us has problems, issues and weaknesses. We as a collective people need to look beyond those and find the strengths in each other. Next time you come across someone who is having trouble, ask yourself, 'What have they gone through to get to this point?' Also think about what you have gone through to get to the point you are at now. We are all strong, beautiful, imperfect and full of purpose.
Love to all!
Who is perfect? Only one that I can think of! None of us humans, though! We all have faults and weaknesses that we have to live with. However, we were also born with enough strengths to offset those weaknesses. We just have to focus on those strengths. As well, we have to continually work on our weaknesses to improve on them. Guess what? It makes us stronger!
More importantly, we need to focus on the strength of other people rather than putting them down for something they aren't good at. For example, how would I feel if someone was so focused on a weakness of mine they couldn't see the good ones? It has happened and I felt pretty bad. Anybody would and everybody does.
Think about this: What about people who are homeless, or have some sort of difficulty with addiction? What is one of the first things most people think when it comes to these two groups of people? They're no good, they use people, they are lazy, we want them to stay away from us. Guess what? People who are homeless are not without hearts, love and humility. People who suffer from addictions are not without the same. They have either lost their homes, jobs, self esteem, not their abilities to be good people. Ted Williams, the homeless addict in the news recently also has a phenomenal ability to use his voice. It's nice to see him getting a chance to showcase the good things! He very well may fail, but I hope the strength he has allows him to get back up and try again.
One more thing to think about: As someone who has been raised Catholic, I believe we are all God's children. Have you ever seen a baby or toddler or young child not smile, hug and kiss, sigh contentedly in their parent's arms or holding hands with friends? I can't think of one.
Every single one of us has problems, issues and weaknesses. We as a collective people need to look beyond those and find the strengths in each other. Next time you come across someone who is having trouble, ask yourself, 'What have they gone through to get to this point?' Also think about what you have gone through to get to the point you are at now. We are all strong, beautiful, imperfect and full of purpose.
Love to all!
Monday, January 24, 2011
Facebook Status
Hey folks! When I think of Facebook, I see a unique opportunity to give people a positive feeling. Social networks can be a waste of time and computer space if all you put on your walls are negative things about people, places or things. On the flip side of that, these networks can also be a vehicle to give people a reason to think in a more positive manner. When I first got on to Facebook a couple years ago, I always had fun updating my status. I started noticing how often people were updating theirs, sometimes a couple times a day. The thing was, their updates really didn't say a whole lot, neither did mine!
As 2010 came to a close, I came across an Application on Facebook called "My Year In Status". Kind of neat, really, so I set it up and picked all the statuses that I wanted on my personal sheet. I started looking at my updates as a whole, and thought, 'Some of my statuses don't say much, only what I was doing that particular day.'
For 2011 I wanted to change that. I wanted each of my Status Updates to convey a motivational or inspirational message. I wanted people to think when they read my posts. I have posted some funny clips from You Tube and some symphonies from movies that Bob and I love watching together. For those of you that know my husband, it might also be surprising that he enjoys the classical music!
In getting back into this blog that I created after we married in 2007, I decided that I will take my status updates and expand on them here on the blog. I want the blog and Facebook to be a positive and creative outlet for me. I hope you enjoy this!
So I will leave you now with a signature line that I more or less adopted over time, "Love to all!"
As 2010 came to a close, I came across an Application on Facebook called "My Year In Status". Kind of neat, really, so I set it up and picked all the statuses that I wanted on my personal sheet. I started looking at my updates as a whole, and thought, 'Some of my statuses don't say much, only what I was doing that particular day.'
For 2011 I wanted to change that. I wanted each of my Status Updates to convey a motivational or inspirational message. I wanted people to think when they read my posts. I have posted some funny clips from You Tube and some symphonies from movies that Bob and I love watching together. For those of you that know my husband, it might also be surprising that he enjoys the classical music!
In getting back into this blog that I created after we married in 2007, I decided that I will take my status updates and expand on them here on the blog. I want the blog and Facebook to be a positive and creative outlet for me. I hope you enjoy this!
So I will leave you now with a signature line that I more or less adopted over time, "Love to all!"
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Seed Of Hope
Plant a seed of hope and watch it flourish. One statement can take on so many different meanings.
It could mean the beginning of the end of bullying. How great would that be? Where we- as a whole- would treat everyone the way they should be treated; with respect and dignity. It could mean the end of desperation in the economic crisis; a more stable ground on which to raise a family, get a great education, live in a safe environment. It could mean the wish for new life to join our circle, to mold into a perfect world of hope.
Whatever that seed is for you, plant it. Nurture it and watch it flourish to its greatest and strongest potential. You will get the joy and satisfaction of seeing something from beginning and following through to the end. You will change your own world, sometimes by making your own set of circumstances if you aren't happy with the ones you have. Plant the seed and watch, just as a garden flourishes, your hopes and dreams come to fruition.
It could mean the beginning of the end of bullying. How great would that be? Where we- as a whole- would treat everyone the way they should be treated; with respect and dignity. It could mean the end of desperation in the economic crisis; a more stable ground on which to raise a family, get a great education, live in a safe environment. It could mean the wish for new life to join our circle, to mold into a perfect world of hope.
Whatever that seed is for you, plant it. Nurture it and watch it flourish to its greatest and strongest potential. You will get the joy and satisfaction of seeing something from beginning and following through to the end. You will change your own world, sometimes by making your own set of circumstances if you aren't happy with the ones you have. Plant the seed and watch, just as a garden flourishes, your hopes and dreams come to fruition.
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Alright, everyone! I haven't been on my blog in forever, as I found facebook to be a great way to showcase my poetry. I am going to try to get better about blogging.
So fun, Bob and I have started Professional Prose, which is my poetry framed, on magnets, notepads, etc. It's going well so far, I am getting more ideas all the time, and the poetry for it is coming out great!
This post should also go right to Facebook, so we will see if all goes well! Look for more poetry coming up, as I am putting together book number 3! It will highlight my work as a caregiver and also focus on healing and memorial poetry!
Love to all!
So fun, Bob and I have started Professional Prose, which is my poetry framed, on magnets, notepads, etc. It's going well so far, I am getting more ideas all the time, and the poetry for it is coming out great!
This post should also go right to Facebook, so we will see if all goes well! Look for more poetry coming up, as I am putting together book number 3! It will highlight my work as a caregiver and also focus on healing and memorial poetry!
Love to all!
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